Is it terrible that I can barely recall this time? I mean…it wasn’t that long ago but I am struggling to remember our concerns were, what Harry used, and what we preferred. Initially the memories are fuzzy because you’re sleep deprived, nursing all hours of the night, and just trying to maintain some composure. Then you realize it’s fuzzy because it’s happening so…stinkin’…fast.
A lot of the same favorite items from 0-1 month and 1-3 months stayed at the top of our list as the months continued. The Ergo and Moby continued to be worth every little penny. Cloth Diapers are a way of life around these parts. We sent Coconut Oil to Harry’s new school in the place of traditional diaper cream. And the one about Zero Expectations? That’s not going anywhere. The following items emerged as the year ticked on and, whether a singular item made the list or a theme emerged, these are in no particular order:
Maclaren Umbrella Stroller - Now of course you don’t need a Maclaren stroller specifically. We just happen to love ours a whole lot. We debated strollers for a long time – “test driving” just about every kind you can imagine. And as we got closer to our Chicago trip last October, we had to pull the trigger. An umbrella stroller just made sense – it needed to break down quickly and easily, be light enough to walk around/travel with, and durable enough to withstand a lot of city walking. Maclaren is generally a great quality stroller and I geeked out over the shoulder strap for ease of carry when it’s closed. Throw in the fact that we scored a great deal on the floor model that we could still use a BBB coupon with…sold.
Toys/Jumperoo/Walker - Several of the toys mentioned in the 1-3 Month Post were still toys that H loved. Our favorite trick was to rotate through toys, hide some for a while, and then he’d flip out when he found them again. Not books, though. Books are always available and never in shortage. Three of his very favorites to read through together and on his own: My Big Animal Book, Spanish Words, and, to my heart’s delight The Very Hungry Caterpillar (surprise surprise, he loves the food). Some of the new toys we introduced at this time we kept appropriate for his developmental stage. The Rainforest Jumperoo he inherited from his cousins was a massive hit until he was about 9 months old. When “cruising” officially started, he wanted nothing to do with stationery activity. His sweet friend Lucy lent him her Melissa and Doug Chomp & Clack Alligator walker and he is still in love with this guy. He also grew more interested in tactile toys – standouts being the B Squeeze Blocks and good ole Stacking Rings. The other favorite toys are the somewhat obvious balloons and the bouncy balls from the wire cages at WalMart (you don’t really need a link for those, do you?).
Legwarmers - H’s Aunt Steph likes to make fun of his love for legwarmers. Okay, my love for legwarmers and Matt’s inability to stop me from putting them on our son. But the truth is that when H got more and more active, these were more than just aesthetically pleasing. They became the best way to keep increasingly active legs warm, and change diapers as “the flip” came into play. You know what I mean…the flip that makes diaper
changing and dressing babes SO MUCH more difficult. With these I don’t need to go through the extra steps of pulling up pants on a babe who just saw the remote control across the room and wants nothing to do with me. A onesie + legwarmers is my absolute favorite combo (when it’s too cold for just a cloth diaper). They became our go-to for around the house lounging. Okay, maybe some errands, too.
Lovey…and a backup! - I referenced this in the last Top Ten favorites as an afterthought. Well afterthought no more…this kid is in LOVE with his bunny, Stinky. Why the name Stinky? Because he chews on the ears until they’re hard and crusty and smell to high heaven. But he also walks around dragging him by an ear or arm, Stinky trailing behind him like Michael Darling and his teddy bear in Peter Pan. It’s absolutely precious. Some kids never take to stuffed animals but I think most little persons find comfort in something – a pacifier or blanket – and my advice as soon as you identify that object is to STOCK UP. Stinky was getting some wear and when he lived up to his name, we’d take him from H for a day to wash and let him air dry. When I wised up to the idea of a backup, I discovered he was discontinued and sold out. Not cool, Jellycat. I placed orders on random online boutiques, three times getting an email that they were out of stock and unable to fulfill my order. FINALLY one came in the mail and with how excited I was, you’d think the bunny was my lovey. Now we rotate them and never let Harry see that more than one exists.
Music Table – I mentioned several toys earlier but this one deserves to stand alone. You may recall that Matt and I are anti-battery operated toys. We’re not total grinches – we just prefer constructive toys that don’t play the same songs over and over or randomly start talking in the middle of the night (it happens…and it’s creepy). We love BOOKS and activities that incite the imagination. But this toy is our big exception. You can choose different options (so it’s not always the same sounds or theme) and H was playing with it as soon as hand-eye coordination strengthened. And it’s what kickstarted his dancing…and we love his dancing. Do the same songs, phrases, and noises still get stuck in our head? Of course, but his little bouncing bottom makes it all worth it.
Bath Tub / Toys - Harry always enjoyed bath time After he fought with RSV at 4 weeks old, he even loved the warm showers we’d take with him to help him breathe clearly. But since the time he could sit up baths have become something super special. This boy LOVES his Primo bathtub, to the point where he refuses to take baths in a plain tub when we travel. He’s comfortable in this one and it has been great at every stage of growth. With toys, we’ve kept it fairly simple but H is certainly never bored – we pour water from the ducks, write out messages for Daddy, and give kisses to the fishes…to name a few activities. Afterward we pile them all into his organizer (okay that’s mommy’s favorite part).
Sunscreen + Swim Float – Once H hit 6 months, we had a lot of pool time and we’re pumped for this year. The basic supplies were swim trunks, a long-sleeved SPF shirt, a sun hat with a brim, this really awesome pool float (witha detachable shade!) and, of course, sunscreen. There is a whole post or two’s worth on how we’re beginning to evaluate our skin care. We’ve long evaluated our diet and since moving to a Real Food diet, we hit the slippery slope of scrutinizing every single thing we digest and chew. Then H came along and we started looking at skin care products more closely. His skin is just so perfect and beautiful, I didn’t want to put nasty chemicals on it. I’ll refrain from the long list of things we avoid…but you learned last time that we’re obsessed with Coconut Oil. One of the things it definitely doesn’t do is protect him from the sun. Our latest discovery is from our awesome friend Sarah’s newest adventure into the world of Arbonne. Basically, I trust their products on account of their high standards (WAY higher than the FDAs) and I’m pumped about their sunscreen for H. (Yes, it’s pricey…but knowing and supporting an Arbonne consultant has benefits. Let me know if you want to ask her questions about it!) More than anything, I recommend reading up on ingredients to avoid and checking out your sunscreen options.
Video Camera - We dropped the ball here. We caught some good moments on iPhone camera and more than enough pictures but given how often Matt and I watch old videos and sigh, we wish we’d taken more footage. If you don’t have a video camera or if you’re like me and your iPhone’s memory is always filling up with pictures, I recommend a Flip Cam. That’s our new plan.
Cooking Supplies - Here’s the motherload of this list that demands a post of its’ own soon. Starting at 6 months, Baby Food became our obsession and object of focus. Where to start, what to try, and so…many…opinions. The most amazing thing is realizing how incredibly personal this topic (just like nursing) can be for other mommies. Here’s my disclaimer – every parent does what they genuinely believe to be best for their child…this I trust. Some parents like to talk about other parents’ decisions in a judge-y or flippant tone. There’s just no room for this. We all need to support each other as we work to make good decisions for our babes with what means and capacity we have. With that being said, we chose to not use boxed cereals or oatmeal and make all of H’s food at home…Real Food diet from day one. H doesn’t eat anything that we wouldn’t eat ourselves (minus Puffs…those are necessary for on-the-go). It’s also one extra way that my full-time working self can love on H and feel solid about what he’s eating when I’m not around. That’s only 3 days a week but time apart from him never gets easier. So we get to pour a lil bit of love into his food and a bonus result is the fact that at this rate he eats almost everything we do (except white sugar…because apparently we’re “mean parents”). To prevent this post from being any longer, here are the basic tools we already had on hand to get started: Jelly Roll Pan (for roasting veggies), Steamer Basket to use with pots (fast and easy way to soften veggies), Blender/Smart Stick/Food Processor to puree softened veggies and fruit (the Smart Stick is seriously awesome for convenience and easy clean up), Ice Cube Tray and/or Freezer Storage Containers to store food after bulk prep.
Eating Supplies – The quick and dirty rundown: Snack Cup for his puffs and eye-hand coordination practice, Sippy Cup (used primarily for his daily smoothie), Favorite Animal Plates (he loves getting to the bottom and seeing the animals…clapping is typically involved), plenty of Spoons (because they double as toys and always seem to go missing), Thermos Food Jar (for food on-the-go or warm lunch at school), and reusable snack bags (for his waffles and chopped fruit). But our very favorite, for wherever we are: POCKET BIB. Once Harry was sitting up, this thing got way more comfortable and also became the only bib he couldn’t rip off. The pocket catches food and it’s super easy to clean off. We also tried the Summer brand but Baby Bjorn is much more durable.
Some honorable mentions – our pack n’ play (Chicco…a wee bit heavy but couldn’t travel without it) and our jogging stroller (Joovy Zoom 360…another category we “test drove” at nausea). We really do try to keep it simple and minimal. We had a Bumbo and it was nice (especially with the tray) but didn’t stand out over time. After seeing how quickly H grew out of things and transitioned into new phases…our focus remained on essentials and things with long-term value, like legwarmers!